A special thanks to Richard Parsons for this fabulous process!

STEP 1

When someone upsets you seek a quiet place.

Calm down by visualizing LOVE flowing through you.

STEP 2

Write down what you think the other person was trying to tell you.

STEP 3

Return and thank him for having the courage and taking the time to point out areas for you to improve, making you a more loving person.

This step is very, very difficult as you must first overcome your fear.

STEP 4

Show him your list of ideas he suggested.

Ask him if this is what he meant to tell you.

He will be happy to point out where your list is correct and where it needs to be revised.

Thank him again for his suggestions and tell him you will be working on them and want him to keep an eye on you and let you know when you need more help.

STEP 5

Return to your quiet place.

Divide the list into three piles.
Put the most difficult one’s on your mental shelf to be worked on when you are able to address them.

Make a second almost able to do pile.

Now start working on the easiest pile.

STEP 6

Watch the other person’s reaction to your efforts to remove your faults using his suggestions.

You have turned an enemy into a teacher – into a friend.

STEP 7

WHEN THE STUDENT IS READY THE TEACHER WILL APPEAR

*********** YOU HAVE JUST MET ONE ***********

STEP 8

Anytime someone upsets you, repeat these steps.

You will eventually reach a point where you will be seeking out people who can upset you and they will become harder and harder to find.

What are YOUR thoughts on this? Willing to give it a try in your own life?

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